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Thursday, March 17, 2011

The moment we've all been waiting for!!

Here they are.....we got to hold and play with Julia and Aaron today!! 



Look how strong she is!
In this picture, I let go of her sides and she was holding herself up.


This is my first time holding Aaron.  (We will be calling him Sergey while he is still here.)  The rest of these pictures are displayed in chronological order.  But first let me tell you about TODAY......

Oh my goodness, the emotions were up and down and so much to take in.  We were picked up from the train station at 6:30 am and taken straight to Tatiana and Valentin's apartment.   Ours was not ready until 11am.  We had breakfast here and then Steve and I were taken to the orphanage.  Grandma stayed with Evan and Valentin at the apartment. 

When we arrived at the orphanage we had to wait around for quite a while.....they were taking care of paperwork and waiting for the doctor to arrive.  Then we were walked to a building where Aaron was.  We saw a bunch of adorable children all sitting around a table coloring or something.  They were all looking at us.....as if they knew what all this fuss was about.  We waited just a bit and then a little boy came walking towards us using a walker.  It was Aaron!!  I had been wondering whether he would be apprehensive at all in meeting us for the first time.  NOT AT ALL.....he had the biggest smile on his face as he came to us saying, "mama" and "papa."  I couldn't believe it, he was so adorable and so little.  He is only a little bit bigger than our 3 year old daughter Regan.  I asked if I could pick him up.  Tatiana said sure and I scooped him up in my arms and he hugged right back.  He was talking a mile a minute in Russian.  I asked what he was saying and they translated that he said, "I have been waiting here all my life for you."  I had tears streaming down my face at this point.  I hugged him, kissed his cheek and he was receptive to it all.  We sat down on some small chairs they brought out for us.  He started repeating something else again in Russian.  They translated again, "Where am I going to go live now?"  He is ready to leave with us, like yesterday : )  He is such a riot.  He loved trying to take pictures with our camera.  He laughed so hard when I tickled his face with my hair.  He climbed over to Steve's lap saying "papa!"   The only time I saw his face get serious was when he was told we were leaving.  He wanted to know when we were coming back.  He was relieved to know that it was tomorrow.  He asked us to bring him back a toy car and airplane.  We have the car, not sure about the airplane......But he went back to his "groupa" without a fuss.  They handed him back his walker and off he went!

We learned from the doctor that he was born at 33 weeks gestation with asphyxiation due to the cord being wrapped around his neck.  He was diagnosed with cerebral palsy at 3 years old.  We were told he learned to sit up at one year, walk at 3 years, and speak at 2 years.  He had developmental delays before the age of 2, but since then has had no other developmental delays.  He has been at this orphanage since he was 4.  Before this he was at another orphanage probably since he was a baby.







After we said goodbye to Aaron, we headed out to another building.  We were asked to sit down on a couch and wait.  The doctor was giving us the information on Aaron when they brought Julia to us.  I was still taking notes so I couldn't fully pay attention to her in the beginning.  Steve was holding her in his lap.  They told us she had been sleeping and she looked a bit befuddled and concerned.....not really awake....poor thing : (  After the doctor finished with Aaron's medical history, she continued with Julia's history.  She has lived at this orphanage since she was 6 months old and was brought there from the hospital where she had been since she was born.  At 3 days old, she was put in the intensive care unit.  At 5 months old, she suffered some head trauma and an MRI was done on her head that came back normal.  She was diagnosed with Cockayne Sydrome at 2 years.  They could not specify whether it was type 1 or type 2.  Both children are negative for Hepatitis B, C and HIV.  When the doctor was finished, everyone left us alone for about 15 minutes.  Now we were able to finally spend some time with our sweet Julia.  You could tell she was studying us.  We discovered VERY quickly that she does not like to be touched.  If you gently caress her cheek, hands, arms, legs, anywhere....she become visibly agitated.  She turns her face away or pushes your hand away from wherever you are touching her.  Her body tenses up.   She was very comfortable with us holding our hand up in front of her and letting her touch us.  You can see her doing this in some of the pictures.  Then I sat her facing me on my lap.  She spent quite a bit of time studying me.  She was playing with the neckline of my shirt and at one point started lightly smacking my chest.  She was concentrating so much as she she did this.  I wanted to see what her level of discomfort was in tactile touching.  So I rubbed her back for a little bit, where she couldn't reach to push my hand away.  She ended up crying and I obviously stopped.  She REALLY doesn't like to be touched/soothed.  She has such a quiet, weak cry.....so sweet.  I had to lay her down on the couch to get her to stop crying.  She did settle down and was back to playing with our hands as we held them up above her line of vision.  We will let her lead the way as far as how comfortable she is with tactile stimulation.  (This may prove difficult on the plane ride home.)  Anyways, Steve was behind her head at this point and she would arch her back and head to see him.  She most definitely follows the sound of voices when she would hear people talking as they walked through the room.  She has very good head control.  She is very small....probably 18-24 mo size.  

This is all for now.....we are very exhausted.  Neither of us slept very well on the train.  The train ride was comfortable.  I couldn't sleep b/c my mind was racing with excitement over the upcoming day.  We are not able to get completely settled in our apartment tonight, because we were told we are only staying here one night and then moving to a different, better place.   Not sure what the deal is, but we are going with the flow : )    "This is the day that the Lord hath made.  Let us rejoice and be glad in it! "  Today was a joyous day indeed : )  Tomorrow morning, we are being picked up at 9:45 am to go back to the orphanage for another visit.













43 comments:

  1. Oh Father in heaven....You are soooooooooo good!!!!!!! You are so amazing. So faithful.

    I cannot stop the tears form flowing. I am so in awe, friends, so deeply thankful that you said, "Here I am, send me!"

    From the bottom of my heart...thank you!

    What angels you have been blessed with.

    Oh, Hailee was the same with touch. So NOT into it. She arched her back to get away every time. Just rememeber that those kids are NEVER touched or loved or cuddled...Julia just has no idea what it. But she'll get it!

    Oh how my heart is rejoicing this day. Thank you so much for posting the pics.

    Biggest hugs.

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  2. "I have been waiting here all my life for you." OMG. Tears. His precious heart!

    What a special day. Your children are darling!

    Blessings

    Melissa

    journeytoonemore.blogspot.com

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  3. Oh how precious for you to finally meet your children. Look at those smiles. God is so good.

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  4. They are both totally and completely adorable! :)

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  5. so so very awesome! It's so wonderful that God brought you together today.
    Love, the Hunters

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  6. Tears of joy! Thank you for sharing these special moments!! Wonderful how you are going at Julia's pace. How precious what Aaron said "I've been waiting for you my whole life"!! Thank you for allowing us to follow your journey : ) Beautiful!

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  7. I can't stop crying I am so happy. I have been checking for these pictures all day:) Thank you for keeping us all involved in your journey. The children are beautiful!!

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  8. I am so happy and so thankful to see YOU in the pictures now with the kids. What beautiful smiles, on everyone. :)

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  9. Slava bogu!!!!! And praise the LORD! I've been waiting for these pictures forever!

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  10. They are both so beautiful. And Aaron saying he has waited all his life for you just melted my heart.

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  11. Before I checked your blog I was on my knees sobbing, completely overwhelmed with emotion and heard God saying "go look." I read this post choking on tears. We serve a mighty, mighty God. All those months ago praying for Julia to be held and to see these pictures. Oh my soul. And Aaron...I have been waiting here all my life...no words no words.

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  12. So great to see those pictures! I am sure Julia will like being touched later on. She has been in the crib for so long that she just doesn't trust others yet.

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  14. I'm so thankful that everything went well today! Many, many prayers for your family!!!

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  15. Our entire family gathered around the computer to read this- we are so very happy for you and your children- God bless you.

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  16. It is so difficult to comprehend the fact that this precious little girl has NEVER been held in loving arms. Never been held close enough to gaze into the eyes of another human being. Never felt the softness of someone's skin or smelled another's breath. But, even more amazing is the look on her face as she took you in. Feeling emotions she's never felt. What a Miracle for this Angel! I feel so Blessed to be able to experience/witness the healing Grace of Our Lord! And, Aaron, Sweet Aaron! What a beautiful boy! I will be Praying for you all as you begin to bond. And, for your children at home. May He pour out His Love on all of you!
    Hugs from Minnesota! ~ Jo

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  17. Sweet tears of joy to see you with your precious children. So thankful for you guys listening and following God's call. May he continue to bless your journey.

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  18. What a wonderful day for you all. I love the big smiles on both their faces. Thank you for sharing this with us.

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  19. Dear Steve & Carey,

    Congratulations! The pictures of both of you with the children are beautiful. It brings back great memories to see you sitting on the couch with your Julia. That is where we met our Julia four months ago. Tatiana and Valetin are such great people. They will take great care of you and work hard to make sure everything goes smoothly. Please say "Hello" to them from the Lococo Family. We will be praying for all of you.
    Patty

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  20. Bawling like a baby!!!! Yes - Yes - Yes! This IS the Day - the Lord has made and we ARE rejoicing! We will remember this day for two reasons! Dusty's Birthday and the day you first held your sweet children that grew in your hearts these many months and NOW they are in your ARMS! Praising God and praying for all to go smoothly!
    Love,
    Amy & Family

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  21. Like others, your post has reduced me to tears. So happy for you and for both of those precious children--that they will know the love of a family they have waited for for so very long. Congratulations.

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  22. Oh, you made me cry too! I couldn't tell my daughter what it said without my voice cracking! I am so grateful to be following your story and am blessed to be able to pray for your family.

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  23. I'm So incredibly happy!!!Aaron's words made me cry. He no longer waits, he has a family now! Julia is precious, I'm sure she will like to be touched in no time.

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  24. So, so precious to see! I am Autumn's sister-in-law, Bohdan and Yuri's aunt, and I had the privilege of meeting sweet Julia and hearing her precious giggle. Needless to say, she won me over in a heartbeat, so I have been following along waiting to see just these photos. So many prayers for what's ahead! God is good. All the time.

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  25. Oh, so glad you got Tatiana and Valentin!! :) They rock.

    Sweet Aaron!!! I too wish you could have scooped him up and taken him home. If only it were that easy! Julia has the prettiest smile. I am sure she had no idea you are here to be her family. Oh I will be praying for the trip home! Have Aaron and Julia ever even seen one another?

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  26. Praise God. He meant for your family to have Julia and Aaron. Be safe and happy.

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  27. She is tiny and beautiful! And Aaron is just adorable! I'm so happy for all of you!

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  28. So, so happy for you all!!! They are beautiful!!!

    Catherine
    wronginalltherightways-travcat.blogspot.com

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  29. I just came across your blog today and have read every post right from the beginning. Tears are streaming down my face as I watch your love and passion, energy and hope unfold. Your children are so blessed to have such wonderful, passionate, caring parents. You are showing each and everyone of your children what true love really is. Thank you for also showing and sharing that with myself and many others. My prayers and love are sent to you.

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  30. Oh my, what a blessing to come by and see these photos!!! Praise the Lord. Your new babies are perfect. Such sweeties ~ I just can't imagine what you must be feeling right now. Thank you for sharing this with others (me)! Looking forward to more, and praying you through...

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  31. they are so beautiful and precious.. cant wait to see them home with you!!!!

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  32. I'm sobbing here. Ever since I saw Adeye's first post about Julia, I've been waiting for these family pictures! Our God is so good!

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  33. wonderful to follow this news from Belgium! Thx for sharing these stories!
    I am amazed how much Aaron looks likes his dad :) actually!
    God bless you all!
    lots of love from us in Antwerp
    Lishe & Michael, Jona & Ezra

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  34. Congratulations! Thank you so much for this.

    Susan

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  35. "I've been waiting here all my life"....OMG, I'll remember those words for the rest of my life for sure!! How sweet and precious and so ready to get outta there for good!! Sweet Julia, what an angel. I'm so happy to have found your blog so I can following along on this amazing journey.

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  36. Beautiful!! just tears of joy here.

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  37. So good to see them WITH you! I love what your little Man said when he met you. So, so sweet! My Liza was the same way as Julia, did not like being touched at all. Especially in certain places, like her head, her legs, feet, back. Now she can give hugs all day long and kisses till the cows come home :) She's only been home about 5 months. Things will begin to change so fast for them and one day you will look at them and ask yourself: "is this the same child?" God is good and when people say adoption is about redemption it TRULY is. These kids lives are being redeemed.

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  38. I am SO SO happy for them and you guys. Little Julia has the prettiest smile. I hope she will come to enjoy being touched soon. So sad to think that she doesn't like touch. How hard that has to be on you 2.

    Aaron sounds like a charmer! What a sweetie.

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  39. Your children are so beautiful. I loved to see Aaron messing up your hair - such a boy! And the obvious love you have for them, and to read how Julia is responding to your touch. Your story makes me so happy. Cannot wait until you are home where others can share in your joy and in showering them with love and attention. Praying for you this evening.

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