Family Pic Nov 2015

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Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Long overdue update

Hello blogging friends!  Sorry it has been so long since an update : (  Obviously, the reason is simple:  busy, busy, busy!!!

When we brought these two sweet children home, we were wrapping up the school year.   Between being gone for 6 weeks last spring and adjusting to two more kids with many doctor's appts.,  I really slacked off on the homeschooling.  So, I am trying to be more consistent and "catch up."  So please continue to be patient with the blog updates.

Aaron is going to 4 year old preschool and LOVING it!  Every night before he goes to bed, he asks if he is going the next day.   His teacher, Mrs. B has CP also, and she just adores him.  I think sometimes she worries too much about how he is going to be able to do things.....a lit bit protective!  He and Regan, our four year old daughter, are best buddies.  They really enjoy going to preschool together.

Aaron has had surgery on his eyes, but we think it will have to be done again.  About 5 days after the surgery, we could see them coming straight to the front and then they actually came in and were crossed.  The dr. said this is normal and that they would correct themselves over some time.  He also said the longer they stayed "crossed" the more likely they will stay straight permanently once they straighten.  But now, they have drifted back out.  He has a follow up with the dr. next Wednesday.  I'm sure he will recommend he do the surgery again, where he will inject more botox into the outer part of the eye to "immobilize" the outer eye muscles and cause the inner muscles to tighten and pull the eyes straight.  This requires visual feedback from the brain.  This is why it is not an exact science.  But once they get the right amount of the injections into his eyes, it should be a permanent fix.

We have also been taking Aaron up to Shriner's Children's Hospital in Philadelphia.  So far we have made the four hour trip twice.  The first was to have an initial evaluation.  The second was for a motion lab study.  This was a two hour appt. where they do a series of tests and evaluations to guide the surgeon's plan for operating on his legs.  We will have to go up for a pre-op visit sometime soon, as this 4 hour surgery is coming up on Nov. 18.

Julia is doing very well also.  She had surgery to put in a permanent GI tube.  This is so much easier for her and us than the NG tube.  She is still gaining weight, though I am not sure of her exact weight.  It's somewhere over 26 pounds.  She has had some problems with reflux, constipation, and wretching.  But we have gotten all of these under control with the surgery, antacid meds, and Miralax.  During the surgery, the dr. discovered a large hiatal hernia which he was able to repair.  So things are going much more smoothly with her and she is not suffering from so many unpleasant physical problems. 

I guess the most important information to pass along to you all is that the genetics department finally got back to us about Julia's "diagnosis."  At the moment, they are still working on writing up a report with all the information in it.  I did talk with one of the genetic counselors on the phone a couple of weeks ago and they told us they have found several unbalanced translocations in studying her chromosomes.  But none of them are on the section of the 5th chromosome that would indicate  she has Cockayne Syndrome.   There is some defect on the 5th chromosome, but lower or higher (I can't remember) than where the CS defect would be.  What it does point to is another disease that isn't  named after a doctor.  They said it is called 5Q14.  However, this is not a complete diagnosis as there are several other unbalanced translocations between chromosomes 9-16.  So at this point, it sounds like we don't really know exactly what she has, but we know that it doesn't look as though it is Cockayne Syndrome.  This could mean that her life expectancy is not as definitive or shortened as we thought.  We knew from the beginning that we would love her and give her the best quality of life we could give her, for however long the Lord keeps her with us.  This has not changed.  Medically, it really doesn't matter.  With or without a definitive diagnosis, we will treat her symptomatically.  And most importantly, she has a family who loves her and will care for her needs, even without having a definite diagnosis. 


Wheeling him to eye surgery

Best buddies!

First day of preschool for Aaron and Regan


Button table....one of Aaron's favorite activities at preschool



Movie time!







She always wants her hands in her mouth



She is ticklish under her arms!

Look how strong I am now : )

Daddy's turn to tickle



Why do you keep flashing that in my face?

Sunday, September 4, 2011

All six kids in one picture

They are at least all looking at the camera!

Beautifully plump Julia


Always smiling Aaron






Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Julia's first haircut

Good afternoon!  So I was just finishing up giving Julia a bath, getting her dressed and combing her hair and I came to the decision that the bangs NEEDED to be cut!  Trying to pull all of her bangs back into a hair tie or clipping to the side was not working.  The ties/clips fall out and then I am afraid she will choke on them lying around her.  And her hair in front is always in her face and looks very "bed head." Her hair, from the cowlick on top of her head, always wants to fall forward.  So I thought it might be easier to comb some of the hair to the front, cut them across and try to train the rest to clip to the side.  Here are the pictures of the end result.  BTW, this is the first time since her surgery that she has been in the exersaucer.  She has definitely missed it!




Friday, August 19, 2011

Julia's New Do

Just a quick update on Julia and Aaron.  Julia had surgery last Monday to put in her permanent GI tube.  She came home last Thursday and is healing and doing very well.  It is wonderful to not have that NG tube taped to her face all the time and I am sure she is more comfortable not having a tube down her nose and throat!   Her hair is slowly getting longer.  It's hard to decide what to do with it.  She is still most comfortable and happy laying down.  Unfortunately, this is conducive to messy, matted hair!  I guess this picture below shows my first attempt at keeping her growing bangs out of her face without having to cut them.  We'll see how it goes......

Aaron and I are taking a trip up to Philadelphia this coming Monday afternoon.  We will stay over up there and his evaluation by the pediatric orthopedic center at Shriner's is on Tuesday, August 23.   The following Monday he has outpatient surgery to straighten his eyes.

On top of all of this, I am in the process of getting everything ready for this next school year.  Kacey and I started 7th grade as of today and Ethan will be starting 2nd grade as soon as I can get his curriculum organized and ready to go.  As I have mentioned before,  Aaron and Regan are going to attend 4 year old preschool at our church, which thankfully doesn't start until after Labor Day weekend.  This will be three (MWF) mornings a week......we are sure they are both going to enjoy this!


Thursday, August 4, 2011

2 Days at the Beach!


Regan

Aaron and Uncle Ricky

Aaron

Bathing beauty(in the shade of course!)


Evan

Uncle Curt, Uncle Bret, Steve, Carey, Uncle Ricky and Aunt Laura

Ethan
Kacey